What do you do when you're not allowed to attend your father's funeral? This is the question facing Alekos's far-flung children from many marriages when the successful, if controversial, Greek sculptor dies in London. His last wife and now widow is determined that they stay away, but for the first time, all seven sisters and brothers meet up and plan to take matters into their own hands.
Reviews
By Mary Portas, 

I was completely absorbed from the beginning. Stealing Dad captures the darkness of a bereaved, divided family and takes it on a sometimes hilarious joy-ride into the light

By Amanda Craig, 

Any novel about a large Bohemian family is fascinating, and Sofka Zinovieff’s Stealing Dad is no exception. A black comedy about bereavement, rivalries, anger and finding peace it shares with her admired Putney an elegance and intelligence that make it a rewarding read

By Virginia Nicholson, 

[Sofka Zinovieff] has an enviable gift for story-telling and character creation. I thought Stealing Dad was a wonderful combination of hilariously improbable and believably sad. A romp – but also a reminder of human fallibility and mortality

By Lily Dunn, 

I laughed and cried reading Stealing Dad. A brilliant depiction of a complex sprawling family with a charismatic lovable rogue at its centre. It is both tragic and funny, but ultimately heartwarming, brought alive by such beautiful descriptive writing of characterisation and place. I loved this book and didn’t want it to end

By Julia Samuel, 

Stealing Dad contributes to a vital and much-needed conversation about grief and funerals. A novel that scrutinises some of our most raw emotions with honesty and humour

By Esther Freud, 

Moving, funny and unexpectedly joyful, I became immersed in the tangled skeins of this unwieldy family coming to terms with their loss

By The Telegraph - Lucy Denyer, 17 MAY 2025

Funny, sad and beautifully written. It will make you appreciate your own family, and wish, perhaps, that you too had an assortment of semi siblings with whom you could take some magic mushrooms, filch a corpse and go on an adventure… A first-class novel starring a dysfunctional family like no other

By Aida Amoako in The Literary Review, 

“Invasion of the Body Snatchers”

“Zinovieff – whose own experience of being barred from attending her father’s funeral inspired the novel – contextualises grief’s most ugly, rash, contradictory and humiliating expressions with compassion and humour.”

By Sofka Zinovieff, 1 June 2025

Telegraph Magazine: I was banned from my father’s funeral – by my father

 

As a child I was terrified of my dad dying. He was wild and filled with creative turbulence, but he was my rock…

By Richard Pine, 

“Zinovieff’s STEALING DAD, set in Athens, London and Scotland … is a thrilling and very rewarding read.”

“Part grief-memoir and part macabre escapade”…'”the writing is fresh… and sensuous.”

By Raffaella Barker, 

“Hot summer sizzle of a book”

I loved Sofka Zinovieff’s potent, highly readable and compelling novel Putney, which came out a few years ago so I pounced on Stealing Dad and ripped through the pages. Another thorny family presented with Zinovieff’s sharp, wry and funny perceptions. Hot summer in Athens, a heist and a vast and funny journey to a Hebridean island form the backdrop to a wonderful, warm and complex interplay between four sisters who have lost their pretty badly behaved father. They are banned from attending his funeral by their stepmother. Farce that is also profoundly real, follows. The different relationships they had with him and one another, the characters and the situations emerge with assurance and a lot of really great and sometimes macabre humour. This novel is a Whisky Sour. Approach with caution, and delight.

 

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